Collection of Bacon(8)
Of Marriage & Single Life
He that hath wife and children, hath given hostages to fortune； for they are impediment to great enterprises, either of virtue, or mischief. Certainly, the best works, and of greatest merit for the public, have proceeded from the unmarried or childless men； which both in affection, and means, have married and endowed the public. Yet it were great reason, that those that have children, should have greatest care of future times； unto which, they know, they must transmit their dearest pledges. Some there are, who though they lead a single life, yet their thoughts do end with themselves, and account future times impertinences. Nay, there are some other, that account wife and children
but as bills of charges. Nay more, there are some foolish rich covetous men, that
take a pride in having no children, because they may be thought so much the richer.
For perhaps, they have heard some talk； Such an one is a great rich man； and another except to it； Yea, but he hath a great charge of children： as if it were an abatement to his riches. But the most ordinary cause of a single life is liberty； especially in certain self-pleasing and humorous minds, which are so sensible of every restraint, as they will go near to think their girdles and garters to be bonds and shackles.
Unmarried men are best friends； best masters； best servants； but not always best subjects； for they are light to run away； and almost all fugitives are of that
condition. A single life doth well with church men： for charity will hardly water
the ground, where it must first fill a pool. It is indifferent for judges and magistrates： for if they be facile, and corrupt, you shall have a servant five times
worse than a wife. For soldiers, I find the generals commonly in their hortatives,
put men in mind of their wives and children： and I think the despising of marriage
amongst the Turks, maketh the vulgar soldier more base. Certainly, wife and children are a kind of discipline of humanity： and single men though they be many times more charitable, because their means are less exhaust； yet, on the other side, they are more cruel, and hard hearted （good to make severe inquisitors）, because their tenderness is not so oft called upon. Grave natures, led by custom, and therefore constant, are commonly loving husbands； as was said of Ulysses； vetulam suam praetulit immortalitati.
Chaste women are often proud and forward, as presuming upon the merit of their chastity. It is one of the best bonds, both of chastity and obedience, in the wife, if she think her husband wise； which she will never do, if she find him jealous. Wives are young men/'s mistresses； companions for middle age； and old men/'s nurses. So as a man may have a quarrel to many, when he will. But yet, he was reputed one of the wise men, mat made answer to the question, when a man should marry？ A young man not yet, an elder man not at all. It is often seen, that bad husbands have very good wives； whether it be, that it raiseth the price of their husband/'s kindness, when it comes； or that the wives take a pride in their patience.
But this never fails, if the bad husbands were of their own choosing, against their friends/' consent； for then, they will be sure to make good their own folly.
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