英語短文："分開一段時(shí)間"讓關(guān)系更加緊密

　　There are times when a relationship reaches a point where one or both partners feel the need for some space and want a break from each other, believing that a break will do the relationship good. Can taking time apart from each other help your relationship or is taking a break simply a way to avoid certain issues that will still be there waiting for you when you get back together?

　　有人說時(shí)間是治愈一切情感傷痛的良藥。而對(duì)于夫妻或戀人來說，時(shí)間卻不是特效藥，一定要遵照醫(yī)囑，這樣才能在平凡生活中尋找到幸福感！ 有時(shí)候，當(dāng)一段關(guān)系到達(dá)一定的程度，夫妻或戀人都會(huì)需要一些個(gè)人的空間，這時(shí)他們就會(huì)想要彼此分開一段時(shí)間。他們認(rèn)為這樣的方式能使兩人的關(guān)系更加緊密。而分開一段時(shí)間真的能促進(jìn)兩人的關(guān)系嗎？或者這種方式只是兩個(gè)人為了逃避一些問題，而當(dāng)他們?cè)俅蜗嗵帟r(shí)，問題卻依然存在。

　　First Tip: Do not use Breaks as a quick fix.
　　竅門一： 不要把“時(shí)間”當(dāng)作特效藥

　　Every relationship varies and it is important that every couple understands that taking time apart is not a substitute for fixing or solving problems, because if you part when you are having problems, they will be waiting for you when you meet again- so it is essential that you talk about your issues first before you decide a break is needed and best for the relationship. Many get scared and paranoid when their partner asks for some time alone because they fear that their partner may not love them anymore or will not come back. Though it is always possible for your partner to change their mind during the break and decide not to continue with the relationship, there is no need to fear taking the break, because the two of you would eventually have broken up anyway, if your partner was already thinking of doing so before- so it is inevitable.

　　每段夫妻或戀愛關(guān)系都有差異。所以，每對(duì)夫妻或戀人都應(yīng)該了解，分開一段時(shí)間并不意味著兩人關(guān)系得到鞏固或問題得到解決。因?yàn)?，問題會(huì)一直存在，無論是兩人分開還是再次走在一起。因此，在確定分開一段時(shí)間之前，找對(duì)方聊聊是非常有必要的，這對(duì)兩人關(guān)系也是有好處的。 許多夫妻或戀人會(huì)誠惶誠恐，當(dāng)他們的伴侶提出需要獨(dú)處一段時(shí)間。他們害怕對(duì)方不再愛他們了，或者不愿再回來。盡管，這段時(shí)間內(nèi)你的伴侶會(huì)思考是否愿意繼續(xù)這段關(guān)系，但你也沒有必要害怕分手。因?yàn)椋绻愕陌閭H早就考慮好這個(gè)問題，分開也就無法回避免的了。

　　A Break can help you re-discover your Individual self.
　　分開一段時(shí)間是為了重新認(rèn)識(shí)自我。

　　Many times, one or both people in a relationship will lose themselves in some way or form and will begin to feel stress and resentment in the relationship, even though it may not be about their partner personally. In every relationship, couples will compromise their differences to keep things healthy and happy and in making these compromising and changes, you both have to let go of a part of yourselves in order to compromise your differences. Sometimes this happens so often, that one or both of you will feel like you have completely lost yourselves and will feel stressed and resentment towards each other, even though it has nothing to do with any of you in particular. Relationships can get so deep- and you both can connect as 'one 'so intensely that you neglect yourselves as individuals, and in order to re-discover yourselves, there will need to be some time apart from each other. Remember, you need to be whole as an individual first in order to be whole together as a couple, and time apart is best if one or both of you feel like you need to get back in touch with your individuality.

　　很多時(shí)候，每個(gè)人會(huì)在一段關(guān)系中發(fā)現(xiàn)迷失了自我，或者背負(fù)壓力、滿懷怨恨，而這并不是針對(duì)伴侶個(gè)人。在每段關(guān)系中，為了使彼此關(guān)系健康幸福地發(fā)展，雙方需要為彼此生活中的差異而妥協(xié)。而面對(duì)妥協(xié)和改變，雙方都必須要放棄自己堅(jiān)持的那一部分。 這種情況時(shí)常發(fā)生，你們會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)自己完全失去了自我，彼此心力憔悴和心懷怨恨。這也并不是針對(duì)你個(gè)人。 只有當(dāng)兩個(gè)人合二為一時(shí)，彼此的關(guān)系才能如膠似漆的發(fā)展。這就需要你能暫時(shí)忽略自己，并重新發(fā)現(xiàn)自我，那么就需要與對(duì)方分開一段時(shí)間。請(qǐng)記住，作為個(gè)人，你首先必須是完整的，這樣才能讓你們的關(guān)系完整。而如果你覺得你需要尋找內(nèi)心的自我，分開一段時(shí)間是最好的選擇。

　　Slow down the Pace to learn more about each other.
　　放慢速度，充分了解彼此。

　　Some couples get so excited when they enter a relationship, that everything moves so fast, which can get stressful, pressuring and scary, in which a break is then a good idea as well. Taking time apart can help a relationship build a better bond because you will both replenish yourselves during the break and will then be able to give the relationship the efforts and attention needed to keep it healthy. If you are afraid that you will lose the relationship if you take a break, just remember that you would have broken up later anyway- not because of the break, but because you grew apart, had irreparable issues or maybe your partner (or you) just wanted to move on. So do not fear what is not in your control. Just stay calm and see what good a break can do for both of you and your relationship. Besides, you both owe it to yourselves to get back in touch with your individualities and learn more new things about yourself, so that you will be able to teach your partner more about you- and the more you know about each other, the more you will understand your differences and will be able to build the connection that works best for the both of you.

　　有些夫妻在開始一段關(guān)系時(shí)非常興奮。所以，一切都發(fā)展得很快。而這樣速度會(huì)讓人產(chǎn)生壓力和害怕的情緒。因此，分開一段時(shí)間也是不錯(cuò)的方式。因?yàn)榉珠_一段時(shí)間能鞏固兩人的關(guān)系，兩個(gè)人都能在這段時(shí)間充實(shí)自我，兩個(gè)人都能為了保持健康的相處方式而付出努力和投入精力。即便你害怕分開一段時(shí)間會(huì)讓你失去對(duì)方，那么你的害怕也是多余的，因?yàn)槟銈冏罱K了會(huì)分開。這并不是因?yàn)闀r(shí)間使你們分開，而是你們之間或許存在不可彌補(bǔ)的問題，又可能是對(duì)方（或者你）想開始新的生活。因此，不要害怕你無法控制的事情。并且，你們彼此都需要與回歸自我的內(nèi)心去發(fā)現(xiàn)了解自我，這樣才能使對(duì)方更加了解你。你們彼此了解越多，才能更好地理解彼此的存在地差異，只有這樣建立起的關(guān)系才能使彼此幸福長(zhǎng)久。


　　

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