微笑面對陌生人
Smile at Strangers, Look into Their Eyes, and Say Hello
Have you ever noticed or thought about how little eye contact most of us have with strangers? Why? Are we afraid of them? What keeps us from opening our hearts to people we don't know?
I don't really know the answers to these questions, but I do know that there is virtually always a parallel between our attitude toward strangers and our overall level of happiness. In other words, it's unusual to find a person who walks around with her head down, frowning and looking away from people, who is secretly a peaceful, joyful person.
I'm not suggesting it's better to be outgoing than introverted, that you need to expend tons of extra energy trying to brighten others' days, or that you should pretend to be friendly. I am suggesting, however, that if you think of strangers as being a little more like you and treat them not only with kindness and respect but with smiles and eyes contact as well, you'll probably notice some pretty nice changes in yourself. You'll begin to see that most people are just like you 主站蜘蛛池模板: 长武县| 东乌珠穆沁旗| 柏乡县| 永川市| 宁国市| 额尔古纳市| 房产| 东乌珠穆沁旗| 汽车| 肇州县| 许昌县| 祁连县| 和林格尔县| 浙江省| 安徽省| 郎溪县| 安庆市| 六安市| 盖州市| 凉城县| 彭阳县| 合山市| 沙洋县| 新民市| 瓦房店市| 鄂托克前旗| 南涧| 亳州市| 阿合奇县| 沂南县| 尼勒克县| 龙游县| 长宁县| 曲周县| 上高县| 会同县| 金沙县| 合水县| 高邑县| 获嘉县| 浠水县|