"gossip " good or bad?

xiaocao

Gossiping is healthy. It can relax tense nerves.

sddzzqq

xiaocao: Gossiping is healthy. It can relax tense nerves.

i think so! thank you!

kitrose

It's a good way to relax ourselves, but be careful to do not let it influence our work.
Actually, almost everything in this world is both a blessing and a curse.

kitrose

I mean, each coin has two sides.
We just  make our own to prevent crossing the line. That's it.

sddzzqq

kitrose: It's a good way to relax ourselves, but be careful to do not let it influence our work.
Actually, almost everything in this world is both a blessing

yes , i know thank you. here it doesn't mean speak ill of others nor even the evil or selfish mind . it means only the curiosity and the passionate to share  with friends.

xiaocao

sddzzqq: i think so! thank you!

sunnyv

Shocking to hear that gossip is acceptable. Gossip in Chinese society is often seen as "use of gossip in exchange for personal acceptance among friends". It is nothing more than just negative comments about individuals. Poeple would love to get near to you when you have something to gossip about. Yes, it is great for those enjoying gossip but have we ever considered the harm it does to those who are being gossiped about? There is no defence if you are the subject of gossip. Everyone has a negative side and it is evil for others to exploit them. Example we laugh at a short person because we are taller then him/her, the person on the receiving side appears to laugh and accept it but we all know that it is a painful acceptance. Why can't we be more civilised and help those who are less priviliged than us?

v87zhou

Sometimes gossip is just a tool which can relax us. But we must know the bottom-line because it will make prople embarrassed.

sddzzqq

sunnyv: Shocking to hear that gossip is acceptable. Gossip in Chinese society is often seen as "use of gossip in exchange for personal acceptance among f

thanks for you frank comment. i agree with you and don't like even hate the one who are always making troubles  by comforte him/herself at the cost of other's shortage especially backbite. and i never be that one. here it doesn't mean speak ill of others nor even the evil or selfish mind . it means only the curiosity and the passionate to share  with friends.maybe the idea is not clear enough so most of you misunderstand. all in all , i just want to say try to joke with, rather than laughing at ,others and be brave to be joked.

sddzzqq

sunnyv: Shocking to hear that gossip is acceptable. Gossip in Chinese society is often seen as "use of gossip in exchange for personal acceptance among f

and maybe it is a great progress to a nervous and serious guy . don't you think so? most time taking easy is the hardest for them!