"gossip " good or bad?

sunnyv

sddzzqq: i see. “gossip” here is used like "pig" which is not good to discribe a person being used.  
i got an idea that your trying to be NO.1 sho

Good defense. Just hope that you will not be the target of damaging gossip. You must have heard that if you have not been pricked by a needle, you won't know the intense pain. All you are trying to do is to right something that is fundamentally wrong. Most self respecting people are sick and tired of all the annoying gossiping going on in our schools and workplace causing friction among people and misery to those who are affected by these endless gossiping. The argument that it  does spice up the atmosphere and create talk topics  is no justification for gossip. Guys are normally not easily affected by such gossip due to the present social circumstances. I pity those girls, especially the younger ones, who are often needless affected by cruel and senseless gossip. Why not use the time and energy on something constructive?

sddzzqq

haha! there is a long way to get a conclusion between us. thank you for your kind remingding！ don't worry i won't be in that group! maybe it is because we are new friends and we don't know each other better. i always know the feeling being lonely , misunderstood and far away from friends. so proper gossiping is a way to adjust myself and to keep optimistic. because most girls are "gossip  " rather than serious! i will learn from you! thank you again! hope you can help me with my english!

sddzzqq

thank you for your participation! wether it is good or bad to the one who is the leading actor in the story depends on what you gossip about, who you gossip with. as for wether it is a way to adjust, it depends on what kind of girl you are at first, serious and nervous or selfish.

sunnyv

sddzzqq: haha! there is a long way to get a conclusion between us. thank you for your kind remingding！ don't worry i won't be in that group! maybe it is because

You appear so sweet. I am confident your gossiping will not hurt. Nobody said gossiping is not allowed. What we are saying is that some people use harmful gossip to achieve unrespectable aims. Surely you are not one of those. Your English is quite perfect, you don't need much help. Here, a warm hug for you. haha

sddzzqq

sunnyv: You appear so sweet. I am confident your gossiping will not hurt. Nobody said gossiping is not allowed. What we are saying is that some people use har

heh! thank you! we catch the agreement on the point at last. in fact we are all kind. i am glad and comfortable now! thank you brother!

sunnyv

Salute ! As the saying goes "if don't fight, will not know each other well". That ends my comments on this topic. Welcome all you nice people to submit your comments..

sddzzqq

sunnyv: Salute ! As the saying goes "if don't fight, will not know each other well". That ends my comments on this topic. Welcome all you nice peopl

hah! some friends enjoy our debate so much. if you are absent , don't you think it is a pity? just a joke! it is not easy for us to get the conclusion. i would like to keep the agreement! thank you for your ideas and participation!

sunnyv

Haha you are really fun. The debate has concluded my dear. Gossiping comes in two flavours, one is just for fun with no intention of harm, the other are gossip with motive for advantage designed to destroy the reputation of innocent individuals. You have already declared that your gossiping is harmless and just for fun. You are an angel now and I have said what I wanted to say. I would be keeping a watchful eye over this and should there a need, I would return. Take care. Cheers.

sddzzqq

i want to submit some beautiful pictures about xiyangyang but fail! anyway it is OK! agree with you!

xiaocao

Ok, ok, ok. Oh my god! You also say "malicious" gossip. Let's pretend I am saying trifling, friendly gossip for god's sake. All right, it doesn't make much  sense.