"gossip " good or bad?

sunnyv

The point is people is taking advantage of others because of their shortcomings or just laugh at others for their own satisfaction. Don't try to mix up humor with hurtful gossip, it is  two different things. I for myself fully enjoy jokes and fun making but once it comes to gossiping, I feel there is a motive and I will ignore them.

sunnyv

sddzzqq: thanks for you frank comment. i agree with you and don't like even hate the one who are always making troubles  by comforte him/herself at the cost of

Oh haha that is nice. Nothing wrong with make some fun, so long as it is not designed to demean or hurt others.

sunnyv

xiaocao: Gossiping is healthy. It can relax tense nerves.

Tsit Tsit Tsit xiaocao! How could you say something like that, relax yourselves at the expense of others? Just wait till one day, you are the  subject of malicious gossip and you would know what I am trying to tell you. Good luck dear.

v87zhou

Right  in some extent I think this way can further  our friendship.

sddzzqq

sunnyv: Oh haha that is nice. Nothing wrong with make some fun, so long as it is not designed to demean or hurt others.

heh!thank you for your understanding. the most terrible thing i can't stand is been misunderstood! thank godness! you see!

sddzzqq

v87zhou: Right  in some extent I think this way can further  our friendship.

exactly!

sunnyv

sddzzqq: i see. “gossip” here is used like "pig" which is not good to discribe a person being used.  
i got an idea that your trying to be NO.1 sho

Good defense. Just hope that you will not be the target of damaging gossip. You must have heard that if you have not been pricked by a needle, you won't know the intense pain. All you are trying to do is to right something that is fundamentally wrong. Most self respecting people are sick and tired of all the annoying gossiping going on in our schools and workplace causing friction among people and misery to those who are affected by these endless gossiping. The argument that it  does spice up the atmosphere and create talk topics  is no justification for gossip. Guys are normally not easily affected by such gossip due to the present social circumstances. I pity those girls, especially the younger ones, who are often needless affected by cruel and senseless gossip. Why not use the time and energy on something constructive?

sddzzqq

haha! there is a long way to get a conclusion between us. thank you for your kind remingding！ don't worry i won't be in that group! maybe it is because we are new friends and we don't know each other better. i always know the feeling being lonely , misunderstood and far away from friends. so proper gossiping is a way to adjust myself and to keep optimistic. because most girls are "gossip  " rather than serious! i will learn from you! thank you again! hope you can help me with my english!

sddzzqq

thank you for your participation! wether it is good or bad to the one who is the leading actor in the story depends on what you gossip about, who you gossip with. as for wether it is a way to adjust, it depends on what kind of girl you are at first, serious and nervous or selfish.

sunnyv

sddzzqq: haha! there is a long way to get a conclusion between us. thank you for your kind remingding！ don't worry i won't be in that group! maybe it is because

You appear so sweet. I am confident your gossiping will not hurt. Nobody said gossiping is not allowed. What we are saying is that some people use harmful gossip to achieve unrespectable aims. Surely you are not one of those. Your English is quite perfect, you don't need much help. Here, a warm hug for you. haha