when a boy asked me

Piano

A boy asked me, “what is our relationship, friendship or love?”
We are in a same company, he always help me. And I clearly know that he love me, all the colleagues rumored that we are in the relationship. I admit he is a good man, take good care of me thoughtfully. I am willing to contact with him. But, this isn’t love.
When he asked me this question, I can’t give him an answer.
I replied him “what all the people said has decided our relationship.”
“you mean we are in the relationship?” he asked.
“maybe.”
Frankly, I don’t know the answer for sure, and how to deal with it?

dear friends, give me some suggestions. thank you in advance!

xrz98

Well, in my point of view, your colleagues' attitude is not important. Your should ask your heart ,do you love him.   Besides, gilrls like you may like romantic atmosphere which feels like love while  some boys just don't know how to creat that. But he may really care about you and you two may enjoy your time together lifelong. That is the true meaning of love, lasting ,not transient. Don't even think about romace can last forever.  So,think about it. Best wishes.

sugar1989

Lovely girl,
  I think UR relationship now is questionable ,U should stop it and truly think it carefully!Maybe it is hard to make the choice but that is UR resbonsibility!TO U and him !Wish U happiness!

cabin

come down and ask your heart!
it is only feeling,not your job or something else!

click_lily

I suppose the key is what you feel about him inside, not rumor, not what you've said above a business to deal with. Be sure to ask yourself what you want to do, because it's your business not your colleagues, nor him.

Piano

adck: hei,girl
maybe you haven't gone through many things,and know little about the risk of the relationship.
don't let other people decide your selection,e

thank you for your advice.  we are in the same company, if we can't deal with this affair peacefully, then how to face him. i am in the dilema.

adck

hei,girl
maybe you haven't gone through many things,and know little about the risk of the relationship.
don't let other people decide your selection,especially such important things.
you know it's just like playing with fire.if you don't know if you really like him,don't admit it like that.if you cannot be together in the future,you even won't be able to keep the friendship.
i think we should be careful about the love.otherwise it might become the sharpest blade that hurt both you and him.